kareina: (me)
An old friend, who doesn't use social media, but does use email sent me a "happy birthday" note, and a brief summary of what has happened in his life since last he wrote (which was for my birthday a year ago). Having written him a long reply, summarizing my year, I thought it worth editing a bit and posting here. Not that I think this includes anything I didn't mention at the time.
 
A year ago I was finishing writing up my Master’s thesis. I managed to submit it on 30 December, which was my deadline to get it in without needing to pay tuition again. That was really quite a relief! However, it took so much time and energy to do that last push to completion that I spent the next several months just relaxing and not even looking at the paper for publication that I should have been also working on.
 
Well, I should say "relaxing on the research side of things". -I was applying for jobs and being active in the SCA, and spending time with my beloved Keldor, and I even signed up for the local “Folk Högskola”, taking their general studies course, including “Samhällskunskap, Historia och Svenska”  That was seriously fun--being a student again, at basically high school level, which means hang out in "Forsämlingshemmet", a wonderful old timber house in the Lövånger Church Village, a short walk from home, working on sewing while listening to lectures, all in Swedish. I could feel myself leveling up in Swedish daily. One of my classmates is Ukrainian in ancestry, but grew up in Russia before moving here a couple of years ago. While he can speak some Swedish, he isn’t really up to the level of the social studies or history class, so I would often translate complicated parts of the lecture to English for him, and he would contribute to the class discussion in English (of course everyone in the room can speak English, but we kept things to Swedish other than that).
 
Shortly after those classes began I saw an announcement for a part time job cleaning the local health center and apothecary. So I applied with a cover letter saying that it sounded like the perfect job to do while doing the Folk Högskola course, and I got it. My first income in a couple of years (not counting working during the elections, which was a one day job). Seven hours a week didn’t quite cover all the house bills, but it did drastically slow the rate at which my savings was dwindling, and meant that we could use Keldor’s income to pay for SCA travel. Lots and lots and lots of SCA travel.
 
Ok, not as many events as when I lived in An Tir or the Mists--I just counted, it was only 16 events. However, Two of those were 10 day events. Another was in Ireland, and we spent several days before and after driving all over the country, and during the spring we drove back and forth between southern Sweden, and home, then north to the border with Finland and then back to southern Sweden multiple times. It was seriously fun.
 
Then, as summer was starting to wind down, I first got a job offer for an eight-month job with the University of Umeå Library in the research support team, and I got a call saying “remember that summer archaeology field work job with the Norrbotten Museum you applied for back in March? We finally got funding approved for a short field season in September, are you still interested?" After a few messages back and forth with both jobs I was able to accept both. The archaeology job was up north, in Kiruna, so I added one more road trip--I went north, to Lofoten, to spend a week as a volunteer at the Lofotr Viking Museum carving soapstone, and then I went to Kiruna for my first archaeology field job.
 
That job was fun. We were excavating a couple of old hearths that are near enough the highway that they will be impacted when the road is widened. There are hearths in the region that date to the Stone Age, soon after the glacier retreated enough to support plants and animals, so we had hoped that these might also be old. Alas, these were so new that there were nails in every layer of ash in the hearths, right to the bottom. So many that I suspect that they never burned anything but nail-bearing used lumber. So my colleagues were disappointed, but I enjoyed learning all of their routines, and the odds of my being able to land an archaeology field job next summer have gone up.
 
After we were done with the excavations I went home, and then started commuting to my job in Umeå. I remember years and years ago, when my friend described to me their ~2 hour commute to work, and I thought it sounded terrible. Well, from my home it is 1 hour by car to the university in Umeå, or 1.5 by bus. The first day I drove, so I could bring in glass jars of food staples to keep in my office so I can make lunch on days I don’t have leftovers. That evening I stopped at a grocery store on my way out of town, and then got stuck in traffic at a construction zone, and wound up having to wait through two cycles of the pilot car, which meant that I didn’t get home till two hours after I had left the office. I was quite traumatized by that, and have taken the bus ever since. (Luckily, one can buy a monthly bus pass for cheap enough that as long as I take the bus more than seven days a month, it has paid for itself.)
 
It turns out that the commute is no problem at all, as the bus has free wifi. So I get up early, and hang out with Keldor for half an hour on the phone as he drives to work. He gets there just before my bus arrives at 06:30 (the earliest bus of the day to stop in Lövånger), I work for 1.5 hours on the bus, then I work five hours on campus and hop on the bus at 14:26 to work for another 1.5 hours. This gets me home just before 16:00, with slightly more than my needed hours for the day accomplished, which means that on days I work from home (pretty much every day I don’t have an in-person meeting (which I have at least two days a week, sometimes four or even five) I can work a shorter day.
 
This has meant that l have had the energy needed to do my thesis corrections. Normally, when one submits one’s thesis to Durham University one has the “Viva” (thesis defense, which, in the UK, is a closed-room meeting with only the student and the two examiners) within three months of submission. Mine took much longer than that to be scheduled. It was a full three months before I was even contacted by my internal examiner, who just said “I am talking with Richard (external examiner) to find a time that works for us both". I promptly replied with “Great! My time is flexible, except for these dates, when I will be traveling”. Some weeks later he replied to suggest the Friday of Double Wars, Drahenwald’s biggest event, held on a site with crap internet access, and that day was the vigil for my beloved Keldor to become a laurel. So I replied that, as I had told him in my previous email, I would be traveling then, and would not have internet access.
 
He didn’t reply, and I happily kept focusing on my SCA adventures. It wasn’t till six full months had elapsed with no viva (and our event schedule slowed down again), that I started feeling like “gee, we really should do that”, and started not only poking him, but I also poked my supervisor and the department head. The result was that I did my viva fully nine months after thesis submission! The viva itself was really nice. They both liked my thesis and were impressed with how much I had done for it.
 
They had, of course, suggestions for improvement, and asked me if I wanted that list to be called “minor corrections”, which comes with a three-month deadline, or “major corrections”, which comes with a six-month deadline. When I explained that I would be starting a full-time job the next day, they decided to call it “major corrections”. I thanked them, and, of course, immediately set myself the goal to finish in three months anyway, but it is nice not to need to.
 
That goal was achieved. My birthday present to myself was finishing up the last of the corrections and printing the thesis to pdf, including all of the appendices before going to bed the night before my birthday. After I got home from work on my birthday I typed up the list of corrections I had made, and sent it in. I probably should have given it one final read over, but I was feeling impulsive, and liking the thought of a birthday submission. So now I will be able to enjoy my winter vacation without last year’s stress of “can't participate in anything fun, I must finish the thesis”.
 

2016

Dec. 31st, 2016 11:52 pm
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Sadly for them many of my friends have been posting to FB or LJ that 2016 was a bad year and they will be glad to see it gone. Not very surprising for me, my own point of view doesn't seem to match what is popular just now, and I rather enjoyed the year, finding it full of adventures, love and fun projects. Some of the highlights of the year include:

January

A trip to Finland with my apprentice and a friend from choir for an SCA event held in conjunction with the Haapavesi Early Music Festival which was much fun and involved much good music at the Early Music performances.

February

A trip to Tromsø to see the Skjoldehamn find on display and see a friend present a talk about the reproduction blanket she wove from that find. The other talk that was also held that weekend was by textile archaeologist Lise Bender Jörgensen, and the photo she showed of the Thorsbjerg trousers inspired me to later make a pair.

March

The Jungfru Marie Bebådelsedagsgille SCA event in the Skellefteå area, which is always much fun.

April

Lots of focus on good stuff at work and projects at home, and all of the regular weekly activities I enjoy (including nyckelharpa, choir, acroyoa, folk dance, and SCA social nights). We did host a home made pizza and movie night for choir one night that month, too.

May

A work excursion to look at pretty metamorphic garnet-bearing rocks in some of the mining areas north of here.

June

Folk Dance performances for Nationaldag, Sepemanstämman and Midsommar. So. Much. Fun!

July

Travel to Finland for Cudgel War (one of the prettiest camping event sites I have ever seen, and a really fun event) followed promptly by our local Medieval Days at Hägnan event (which I helped run).

August

A trip to Visby for Medieval week, where I met up with Firewalker, visiting from the West, and brought him north afterwards for more Swedish adventures, including heading up to Jokkmokk, so that he could travel north of the Arctic Circle.

September

A trip down to Umeå for their annual SCA dance event. Always so much fun!

October

Got to play a bearded Viking cheftian at a mini-larp.

November

Hosted Norrskensfesten, my favourite SCA event and bardic competition, which my apprentice won!

December

My fifth 10th Birthday! (I am so much older than I think I am, but, really, just a child)

Other highlights of the year involve working out so much that I am now strong enough to stand on my hands, and do handstand pushups if my feet are against the wall for balance, making progress on learning to communicate well with loved ones, falling in love, inventing yummy recipes, lots of fun sewing and nålbinding, acroyoga performances, much progress on reading Swedish, and some progress speaking it, continue to have good health, and so much more. Yes, for me, it was a good year, and I am looking forward to the next one (which started without my noticing as I typed this).
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I have enjoyed reading year end summaries/holiday letters from some of my friends and family this week, and it has inspired me to try to see if I can summarize my 2012.

January = traveling )
Total for the month: 19 of 31 days sleeping away from home.

February = less traveling )
Total for the month: 9 of 29 days sleeping away from home.
March = working on a bus )

Total for the month: 17 of 31 days sleeping away from home.

April = dancing and gaming, and more working on a bus )

Total for the month: 12 of 30 days sleeping away from home.

May = Cyprus and Double Wars )

Total for the month: 14 of 31 days sleeping away from home.

June = Folk Music! )

Total for the month: only 1 out of 30 days sleeping away from home!

July = Hängnan Medieval Days! )

Total for the month: 7 days out of 31 days sleeping away from home, but five of them were in my own pavilion, only a 20 minute drive from home, so it kind of felt like being at home anyway.

August = mostly at home )

Total for the month: 4 days out of 31 days sleeping away from home.

September = mom visits! )

Total for the month: 4 days out of 30 days sleeping away from home.

October = waiting )

Total for the month: 4 days out of 31 days sleeping away from home.

November = House! )

Total for the month: 4 days out of 30 days sleeping away from home.

December = All moved in! )
There are still a few days left of the year, but we have no plans to go anywhere else, so I feel safe to say: Total for the month 3 days of 31 sleeping away from home.

That makes the total for the year 102 days sleeping away from home, or 28%. I hope that 2013 has more time at home; I like home, and like it even better now that "home" is a house of our own with a view that is naught more than fields and trees and lots of beautiful snow!
kareina: (me)
As I type this it is New Year's Eve—there are occasional sounds from outside of people's fireworks being shot off, and I am contentedly curled up at home with my sweetie, who is at the next computer, within easy reach.

One year ago today I was visiting a friend in Geneva, on my way to Sweden from Italy. One year ago tomorrow I landed in Stockholm, took a train to Tierp to the home of some friends I had first met in Alaska the winter before, and visited with them while [livejournal.com profile] lord_kjar drove south to meet me there for the start of our first "date"—a 10 day road-trip which included a trip to Gotland to introduce him to my Queen, visits to the homes of three out of four of his siblings (and the chance to meet his parents, too, when they also visited one on them whilst we were there), attendance at a play put on in southern Sweden by one of his friends who lives up here in the north, and attendance at the SCA 12th night event, where the above mentioned Queen stepped down and became a countess. Then we did the long drive north to Luleå, and I moved in with him. At that point I had only one suitcase full of stuff with me, and the rest was in storage with a friend in Scotland.

The rest of January )

February )

March ).

Slight pause in typing, while we went to enjoy watching fireworks out our windows. The widow at the front of the apartment gives a good view of the big display being put on at the University, while the window at the back of the apartment gives a nice view of the (much further away) fireworks display happening somewhere over near the city center.

April )


May )

June )

July )

August )

September )

October )

November )

December )

One year after moving to Sweden for love, and I am still head over heels in love. This is the most togetherness relationship I have ever had—we work together on so many projects, we enjoy so many of the same activities. We "click" in ways that make I, who have always been lucky in love and always led a charmed life, go "wow, this is wonderful". I have a good job, a happy relationship, enjoy good health, and have an active social life in addition to having a loving partner. Life is truly wonderful.

I wish all of my friends a Happy New Year, and hope that 2012 brings you all much joy.
kareina: (me)
For me 2009 was a very good year. Some of the highlights:

* Completed my PhD
- Thesis submitted in June
- Comments from the examining committee received and acted upon in November
- Degree awarded in December

* Obtained first Post-Doc position & moved to Europe
- am truly self-sufficient for the first time in my life—not having my day to day living supplemented in any way by lovers, housemates, parents, or friends
- attended Geology conference in Edinburgh, Scotland
- attended Medieval Textile conference in Eindhoven, Netherlands
- attended SCA event in Germany
- attended SCA event in Stockholm
- attended Geology conference in San Francisco, California

* Got to visit friends and family in the US (including Alaska!) for the first time in many years. Twice for some of them in California and Seattle.

* Spent six months living with a family I adore, enjoying access to a garden full of fresh food while finishing up my thesis.

* Got to see one of my lovers fall head over heels in love and radiate the joy that comes with one’s first intense love

* Managed to maintain a strong loving friendship/connection with the lover with whom I’ve lived the longest, despite some major complications in his life

* Met many new and interesting people, and reconnected with many, many people with whom I’d previously lost touch

* Was reminded, yet again, that moving someplace new is a wonderful adventure, and that just because one moves on does not mean that one loses the connections with the people one cares about in the previous locations

However, no life is complete without some lows to balance the highs

* Didn’t have time to spend with one of my lovers while finishing up my thesis
- missed the frequent hikes and alpine adventures we’d enjoyed the year before
- missed living with him and the regular companionship/affection that entails
- missed him even more when I moved continents and regular correspondence didn’t happen as much as one might wish

* Was powerless to prevent the tragedy as another of my lovers had his heart crushed by the girl he’d fallen in love with (with a lot of help from a display of overwhelming intolerance on the part of her parents)
kareina: (me)
For me 2009 was a very good year. Some of the highlights:

* Completed my PhD
- Thesis submitted in June
- Comments from the examining committee received and acted upon in November
- Degree awarded in December

* Obtained first Post-Doc position & moved to Europe
- am truly self-sufficient for the first time in my life—not having my day to day living supplemented in any way by lovers, housemates, parents, or friends
- attended Geology conference in Edinburgh, Scotland
- attended Medieval Textile conference in Eindhoven, Netherlands
- attended SCA event in Germany
- attended SCA event in Stockholm
- attended Geology conference in San Francisco, California

* Got to visit friends and family in the US (including Alaska!) for the first time in many years. Twice for some of them in California and Seattle.

* Spent six months living with a family I adore, enjoying access to a garden full of fresh food while finishing up my thesis.

* Got to see one of my lovers fall head over heels in love and radiate the joy that comes with one’s first intense love

* Managed to maintain a strong loving friendship/connection with the lover with whom I’ve lived the longest, despite some major complications in his life

* Met many new and interesting people, and reconnected with many, many people with whom I’d previously lost touch

* Was reminded, yet again, that moving someplace new is a wonderful adventure, and that just because one moves on does not mean that one loses the connections with the people one cares about in the previous locations

However, no life is complete without some lows to balance the highs

* Didn’t have time to spend with one of my lovers while finishing up my thesis
- missed the frequent hikes and alpine adventures we’d enjoyed the year before
- missed living with him and the regular companionship/affection that entails
- missed him even more when I moved continents and regular correspondence didn’t happen as much as one might wish

* Was powerless to prevent the tragedy as another of my lovers had his heart crushed by the girl he’d fallen in love with (with a lot of help from a display of overwhelming intolerance on the part of her parents)

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