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Morbid question, but let's be serious here: If you were trapped in a house with nothing to eat but your recently deceased pet, wouldn't you at least think about it?

People talk about this like it's so shocking, or like it means your pet obviously doesn't really love you, but c'mon. I love my cat, but I'd eat her in a heartbeat if she was already dead and there was nothing else left. She's my cat, she's not my baby. It's not like I've gone full on Donner Party - and let's be clear, if that was all that was left on the table, and they were already dead, I'd do that too. At least, I'd think about doing it. I suppose I might not be able to bring myself to go that far, but I wouldn't find it shocking if another person did!
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I've always been a fan of cartoons, pardon me, animations, anime, graphic novels.  The freedom that that artwork gives a story, especially a good one, ignores all fleshly restrictions.  What's making me happy right now?  Hazbin Hotel on Prime is.

The Princess of Hell, Lucifer Morningstar's daughter Charlie (Why Charlie?  That's a question I'd like to ask the creator of the show.) believes in redemption, and she wants to help the damned achieve that state.  With songs!  Angst! And surprisingly good Catholic dogma, says the very lapsed Catholic here.  It was fun as it was, but when the Seraphim showed up with all the eyes, I was in for the ride. 

I had no expectation that it would survive for a second season, but it did and the storyline continued to be good.  In many ways, it has A Knight's Tale feeling.  There's a silly, shiny layer, but there's also a lot of history holding it together.  All that reading for my Durmstrang series on the levels of heaven and hell, who inhabits where, etc. made Hazbin a lot more fun.

What was completely new to me was the fandom.  Amazon has Hazbin Hotel Live on Broadway.  All the voice actors, a lot of the songs, and wonderful, lingering shots of the fans, who know all the words and motions to the songs and many wearing fantastic costumes.  The Alastors were especially good.  

youtu.be/G1C1MFv7CKU  Hope that works. It's a link to the show-stopper for S2.  If you haven't seen the series, Lute (again, why that name?) is the angel, the dark male figure is Adam (as in Adam and Eve), and the angel at the door is Abel.  


changing house guests

Dec. 29th, 2025 05:43 pm
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 Started the day with a quick 25 minutes pilates session, then I had time to start a bread dough and baste the next sleeve of Keldor copper trim tunic to the silk lining, cut the lining, and sew the decorative line along the edge of the cuff before the others got up.

sleeves
 
We had a lovely final morning hanging out with Hjalmar and Sofie, then we loaded their stuff into the car, and Keldor drove up to the bus station to meet Charlotte, and we took a walk to enjoy a little fresh air, stopping at the Saluhall to admire the nice local crafts for sale, and see all the interesting locally produced food (Sofi bought a good quality chocolate) before arriving at the buss top. Charlotte's bus soon arrived, and we four chatted a bit till Hjalmar and Sofie's bus arrived and we sent them on their way. It is always a joy to see them!
 
Then home and baked a pizza. Now they are curled up on the couch watching youtube videos on making stuff, and I have updated the event [web page to include a list of registered people](https://www.reengarda.se/anm%C3%A4ldalistan), now that the (soon to be) King has registered.

edited to add:

In other news, there is a nice article in the local newspaper today about the family who bought the tower house., so now I know their names (Noak and Anna-Maria Larsson and their kids Elna, 8 and Ruben, 4 år) and see that they have Instagram.

crafting monday

Dec. 29th, 2025 11:47 am
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Hey all, if you'd like to join the crafting hangout, it is tonight from 6-8pm ET!
 
Video encouraged but not required!
 
Topic: Crafting Hangout
Time: Mondays 6:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
 
Join Zoom Meeting
 
Meeting ID: 973 2674 2763

changing house guests

Dec. 29th, 2025 05:28 pm
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 In addition to being SCA, Hjalmar is also a member of a Karoliner reenactment group (late 1600’s, early 1700’s, during Sweden’s “stormakt” time). Therefore, last year he taught himself knitting to make appropriate socks to wear with his knee breeches. Keldor saw that, and suggested he make me a pair, in dark blue, to go with my brown linen knee trousers.
 
Much to my delight, when Sofi and Hjalmar arrived yesterday he took out his knitting, some beautiful dark blue wool socks, which were worked from the knee down, he had passed the heels, and was closing in towards the toes. So he tried them on me several times over the course of the evening last night and today, adjusting them to perfectly fit my feet. This evening he finished them, and I am in love with these beautiful, comfortable socks!

socks!

In other news, Keldor has finally started insetting the reindeer antlers we got from Torun this autumn into the moose antlers we have been using as a hatrack. Soon it will be a much better hat rack!


hatrack

It just needs the epoxy and first layer of spackel covering the seam to harden so he can do the final smoothing over of the join.
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ask a detailed question about phonology, such as "Do you really pronounce 'tr' as 'chr'?" (Yes, yes we do. We all do. It's almost impossible not to due to the physiology of those phonemes.)

And this will generate a burst of absolutely, frustratingly useless nonsense, because people just do not know how they talk. They don't know how they talk, they can't analyze their phonetics on the fly, and they are staggeringly unaware of these facts.

I keep telling these people to go to /r/linguistics instead, but thus far, nobody has taken my advice. Which is a pity, because I do give excellent advice, especially in this case.

But seriously - nobody knows how they talk. It's like trying to explain the biomechanics of walking. Sure, you've been doing it since you were a toddler (probably?), but that doesn't mean you have any understanding at all of what the hell you're doing as you propel yourself from place to place. I bet you can't even explain how you adjust for your varying center of balance!

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Dec. 28th, 2025 05:15 pm
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2025 can go now.  It wasn't that bad, but it was annoying.  For me, there were physical issues.  My back, my shoulder, my elbow, and most came from a couple of bad falls on one pelagic birding trip.  I now know that it takes about three months for that particular soft tissue injury(ies) to heal up, and it doesn't help if you're a klutz and fall down again after tangling feet in a hose and then a blackberry cane.  Currently finishing up a back episode.  Seriously, universe, I'm only sixty-five.  Not going to go into the current state of politics.  

The state had a huge storm system.  Power went out all over, not just here, but here it was out for almost a week.  Yeah, we have a generator, a generator on what sounds like its last few uses.  The FiL bought it during the lead up to Y2K.  Not sure if he ever used it, but we certainly have.  The WBH isn't eager to buy another, but when you live where we do, it's either a generator, a propane back-up, or pretending you live in the 19th Century.  

I don't make New Year's Resolutions.  I hate breaking promises to myself or anyone else, and let's face it, most resolutions never make it past January.  Goals.  I like goals, especially goals you can check off.  

The last few things I've read have been cookbooks.  I need more ways to use fruit, and a retired caterer friend has been making suggestions.  There's only one small crate of apples left, and they've gone mushy and tasteless.  See, if I had more recipes, I could throw out less and probably have to buy more jars.  

I haven't seen anything I feel comfortable recommending lately.  We tried "Cemetery Road," which was not bad until the last couple of episodes, when we yelled at the characters for being stupid.  Currently, it's "House of Guinness."  I've stopped paying attention to the plot in favor of enjoying the costumes and set dressing.  Any recs for things streaming on Netflix, Amazon Prime, or Apple +?  


Books I've Read: Book of the Year

Dec. 28th, 2025 10:00 am
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(This is the promised separate review of my favorite book from 2025.)

Inventing the Renaissance by Ada Palmer is not simply my favorite book of the year, but is my candidate for Best Book of the Year overall. This is not simply a book about history but is a book about the process of history. It demonstrates the fractal messiness of the people, places, and events that we try to tidily sort into specific eras, and especially how all those people, places, and events are braided together into a solid fabric. Palmer doesn’t shy away from pointing out how thoroughly our understanding of history is shaped by the prejudices and preoccupations of historians; she embraces this aspect noting at every turn how her own take is shaped by her love of the city of Florence and especially its most controversial son, Machiavelli.

But what makes this book great is the humor poured into the cracks around the politics, violence, and art. (A recurring feature is little comic dialogues that summarize key events in a narrative style familiar to anyone on Twitter or Bluesky. I desperately want to see these presented in visual format, whether as live theater or animated shorts. It’s hard to pick a favorite line, but the top two are “Maria Visconti-Sforza: I’m standing right here!” and “King of France: You Italians are very strange.”)

The book concludes with what I can only describe as a stump speech for the importance to the contemporary world of studying and understanding history, embracing the necessary messiness of “progress,” and the hope that we can indeed continue the Renaissance project of reaching for a better world.

This is a very long book, though paced in manageable chapters. When I decided to read it and found that the audiobook was the same price as the hardcover, I went for audio (at over 30 hours!) and listened to it while taking the train home from the International Medieval Conference. The narration is top-notch, capturing the emotional range of the text perfectly. The side benefit is that the combination of material, voice, and length made it perfect to add to my “sleep-aid audiobooks” collection, which means I get to enjoy it over and over again (in the bits and pieces I consciously hear). But of course I bought the hardcover too, not only so I could get Palmer to autograph it, but because I needed to be able to track down my favorite bits and check out the footnotes.

shopping and guests

Dec. 27th, 2025 11:15 pm
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 Started the day with a 25 minute HIT DownDog workout, then a quick breakfast with Keldor and we went into town. He said that he wanted to go early, as it was going to be crazy busy later in the day, and he wated to avoid that "total chaos".
 
We stopped first at the Dollar Store, where he stocked up on bubble bath, bath salts, and snacks for the cats. Then it was off to the second hand store, where he bought a cheap pair of tower speakers (29 kr, so less than €3, or around $3 US), and I found a blue and white sweater in Marino wool and cotton, with a nice geometric pattern. I am unlikely to wear it as it is, but it will make pretty trim on a black or dark blue sweater.
 
The next stop was Biltema, where we bought a new set of screwdriver heads for the drill (this is why we came into town, the fine point Philips head bit had died yesterday, and he had no more in that size). Sadly, while they have boxes of replacement heads for the larger size Philips head bits, the size he needed is only available as one of a set of a variety size and shapes. We also bought some cable to attach the new speaker to the TV, and one each roll of black and of white duct tape.
 
We then drove over to where the grocery store and lots of other shops all share a parking lot, parked, and checked several stores looking for a replacement water bottle for me, since mine vanished.
 
I had it on Julafton when we were at Pernilla's, and I refilled it for the drive home. I thought we brought it into the house when we arrived, but neither of us have seen it since. That one was one of the big ones (1.5 liters), with a straw and a sippy top, and I wanted another like that.
 
We checked three stores, and didn't find one of the same type, but eventually found one in a 1 liter size with the straw and sippy top, so I bought that.
 
However, while in the stores I saw warm winter boots in a similar style to those I have used since coming to Sweden, but, unlike the ones I bought last year, don't have thst painful seam on the heel, so I impulse bought them. We also bought a couple more futted sheets to fit the guest bed, since we will have a variety of guests.
 
Then we stopped by the liquor store so Keldor could get a copule of interesting beers, then got salad makings, cheese, etc at the grocery store before finally heading home, by way of Keldor’s dad's to drop off the food we'd gotten for him.
 
While there was no traffic when we arrived to Solbakken (where all these stores are), on the way out we saw a huge line of cars on the highway, backed up awaiting their chance to exit and go shopping, and he pointed and said thst if it has looked like that when we arrived, we wouldn't have hone shopping. I so agree.
 
We came home to a clean house, as the housekeeper had been here (yay!!!), and I set to work cooking. I had just enough time to mix up a lentil, sunflower seed, and pumpkin seed loaf and toss it into the oven with a pumpkin to roast, while I
combined the spinach, cucumber, tomato, carrot and avacodo into a a lovely salad, and then mix up the batch of smoothies I have been wanting to make for a couple of weeks (this one contains spinach, avcado, cucumber, raspberries, blueberries, strawberries, and mango) and freeze it in silicon muffin cups.
 
As soon as I had the dishes washed from all that it was time to drive up to the buss stop and pick up Hjalmar and Sofie, them home and eat all of that yummy food, and sit up late talking and working on sewing (me) And knitting (them).

Finally saw Zootopia 2!

Dec. 27th, 2025 04:00 pm
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Before I say anything, A would like you to know how extremely annoying it is that they played those "Arabian Nights" riffs every time the snake (Barry) appeared, and it would be annoying even if the plot Read more... )

They wouldn't shut up about it, so there we go. They're not wrong.

Read more... )

The Untime of the Year

Dec. 27th, 2025 11:33 am
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I meant to post on Christmas and I meant to post the day after and yet I'm still surprised it is only two days post Christmas.  It feels a lot longer and all the shine off the Christmas Apple already.  I keep a strict Christmas Season of Black Friday to Ephiphany and here it is not even NYE and I'm already done with the Christmas music.

Not the slow fade rainbow Christmas lights.  I could easily have that up all year round.  I do like the multi colored slow fade.  If I could do fairy light  slow twinkle, I'd do that too - but I feel like my light specifications don't come in those parameters.  Or, if they do, then I'm shelling out way more for holiday lights than is reasonable for my tax bracket and decorating scheme.

Part of it might be my surgery, part might be half my house has the flu variation, part might be the low powered Christmas we did, and part might be the Existential Dread of living in an Early Fascist America.  Who can tell these days?

The surgery went well and I am nine days past at this point.  It weird to think that - as I feel like I've always been reduced mobility and yet it feels like I just had the surgery.  Only my ACL needed to be replaced, my meniscus was not damaged at all.  This is good, I'm told, as it reduces the time needed to heal.  Which I'm exceedingly thankful for as I'm already in a straight legged locked brace until January 26th.  I guess I'm not going back to work any time soon, of which I'm conflicted about.  I have PT twice a week which makes me sweat.  Day 1 wasn't so bad, things were tight but I could bend my leg 60%.  Day 2 was significantly more brutal and while I could still bend to near 60% (I was a bit stiff) they gave me the WTF look when I said I didn't know why I hadn't done better and they're like YOU HAD SURGERY! as if I as the most dense little girl that has ever come through their PT.  But, I should be improving faster and doing better and getting back to work/life? 

I told them the only surgery I ever had that was as serious - if not more - than an ACL replacement was having an emergency C-section.  With that they cut a big hole in your abdomen and 48 hours later sent me home with a newborn to take care of - like it weren't nothing. Commentary on the dismissal of childbirth/motherhood in culture and medicine goes here.  So that is my only comparison on how I should be viewing an ACL reconstruction.

So after all that and doing my exercises they're like "Okay, here we go" and bent my leg for me.  I didn't cry.  Exactly.  But I considered it as an option.  Again, they said I did great and my leg bent at 80%, but I sure as hell could not have done that myself.  

Yay getting better?

I just wish I could sit in a chair or lay in bed and not have to do it wierdly or in one position only, putting strain/pressure on other parts of my body.  Like even here sprawled out on the couch with the lap desk, the lapdesk eventually puts too much pressure on my left thigh and sitting becomes low key agony.  I don't think its resting on a surgical site, but close enough that everything is irritated.  So then I try to sit at a table and I have to rest the leg on a chair because I can't bed the knee and that's a bad angle for either the ankle or the lower back and then I'm in bed laying flat and that eventually is the lower back again. 

I really think the brace is more painful than the knee surgery itself.  Life will be so much more improved when I can bent a knee enough to sit in a chair with both feet on the floor.



Ancient Music by Ezra Pound

Dec. 25th, 2025 06:09 pm
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Winter is icummen in,
Lhude sing Goddamm,
Raineth drop and staineth slop,
And how the wind doth ramm!
Sing: Goddamm.
Skiddeth bus and sloppeth us,
An ague hath my ham.
Freezeth river, turneth liver,
Damn you, sing: Goddamm.
Goddamm, Goddamm, 'tis why I am, Goddamm,
So 'gainst the winter's balm.
Sing goddamm, damm, sing Goddamm.
Sing goddamm, sing goddamm, DAMM.


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Actually the one book I finished in May is going to get its own separate entry (Inventing the Renaissance by Ada Palmer) because I've decided it's my favorite book of the entire year.

The Invisible Library by Genevieve Cogman -- (audio) The entire Invisible Library series came up on sale as a set on Chirp, and since I'd heard interesting things about it I picked it up. I've only listened to this first volume. Although I find it interesting and imaginative, I kept not getting back to listening to it (hence it took me an entire month to finish). That's made me less interested in trying the next book in the series. I didn't dislike it--it just didn't grab me.

The Unlikely Pursuit of Mary Bennet by Lindz McLeod -- (text) I actually bought this one in both text and audiobook, but since I was already listening to a book of similar genre and setting (see next entry) I went for the text version to keep psychological separation. This is a sapphic Jane Austen-inspired story (as one might guess from the title). I've always felt that Mary Bennet got short shrift in the original book. This story begins well after the end of Pride and Prejudice and has paired her with the now-widowed Charlotte Collins (née Lucas). Mary has the advantage of having acquired a mentor in London who runs a not-very-covertly queer household, which eases the way for Mary and Charlotte to be able to share their attraction and provides a short-cut around the economic challenges for a female couple. I found the story cute and emotionally satisfying although Charlotte occasionally shocked me in blowing off the expected social isolation of recent widowhood.

A Rare Find by Joanna Lowell -- (audio) Another Regency-era sapphic romance, involving an amateur archaeologist and the love/hate relationship with her neighbor. Enjoyable, though a bit over-packed with subplots similarly to the previous book of hers that I've read (A Shore Thing). Lots of occasionally improbable hijinks on the quest for Viking-era artifacts and recognition. There were a few places where my historic sensibilities were trampled on. (You do not just "park" a horse and carriage overnight while you're off canoodling. I mean, maybe a groom was summoned to take care of them? But something it didn't get mentioned.) The conclusion seemed a bit contrived but overall I liked it.

Servant Mage by Kate Elliott -- (text) I have no idea how Elliott managed to pack so much plot and worldbuilding into one tiny novella! Secondary-world quest fantasy with a very relatable protagonist and lots of peril. There are unexpected and satisfying twists. I really hope this is a set-up for more fiction in this world.

The Tapestry of Time by Kate Heartfield -- (audio) Historic fantasy set during World War II focused around the war efforts of a family with various psychic powers who are connected in some way to the Bayeux Tapestry. Told through multiple viewpoints, the novel gradually builds up a fragmentary picture of how all the parts relate until it all comes together. There’s a fair amount of violence and peril, as one might expect in a wartime espionage story, but the ending is satisfying. A strongly woman-centered story with positive queer rep (and resolution). Heartfield writes dense, twisty books that can take some concentration but I’ve enjoyed every one that I’ve tackled.

Murder by Post by Rachel Ford -- (text) This fairly short story introduces the continuing detective couple, Meredith and Alec Thatch, set in the wake of World War I in England. Alec is passing as a man in order for them to marry, but is not presented as transgender as far as I can tell. This adds an extra element of risk and danger when the resident of a neighboring flat is found dead with signs of poison. This is a classic cozy-style mystery, with lots of clues and red herrings, allowing the reader to think just one step ahead of the characters. This initial story—really just a novelette—is free on the author’s website. I hope that some day she’ll decide to release the rest of the series more widely than just Kindle Unlimited. It deserves a wider audience. It's really testing my resolve not to buy Amazon-only books unless I'm committed to doing a review.

In August I started two long-term reading projects. Having enjoyed the tv adaptation of the first Murderbot book, I decided to give the series another try (after having bounced off one of the middle books). And I've been enjoying Rachel Fraimow and Emily Tesh's podcast, The Eight Days of Diana Wynne Jones so much I decided to do a (possibly non-exhaustive) reading project of Jones's books. I have twelve of her books on my shelves, though I'm not entirely certain I've read all of them, and I hadn't quite connected up which ones were in series and what order they came in. Having very belatedly acquired a local library card, I've been taking advantage of Libby audiobooks to tackle these two projects, which spaces them out nicely, given wait times.

All Systems Red by Martha Wells, Artificial Condition by Martha Wells -- (audio) It's hard to evaluate the first book separate from having seen the tv series first. It was interesting both how closely the series followed the plot and the places it diverged. Having more details on all the characters (and there are a lot of them for a novella), the story began to grow on my seriously by the second book. It helped that it didn't feel like it was wall-to-wall combat scenes like my first (out of order) encounter with the series. Artificial Condition had a more mystery-like plot, which I enjoyed.

A Charmed Life by Diana Wynne Jones -- (audio) Young adult. This seems to be a very typical Jones set-up: a disfunctional family with the least-regarded kid as the protagonist. (That's all my notes say. I confess that some of her books have now run into each other in my memory.)

Oops, almost forgot one of my August books!

Lake of Souls by Ann Leckie -- (audio) A short fiction collection, with some stories tying in to her Imperial Radch universe and others feeling like they're part of some other connected setting. Leckie writes the most vivid and believable truly alien characters I've encountered since back when I was reading a lot of C.J. Cherryh in the '90s. The title story is a great example.

On Audiobooks

One of the things I cut back on in preparation for my retirement was my Audible subscription. (I had the three-books-a-month level.) That's changed my audiobook consumption somewhat. What I borrow from Libby is a bit random, not simply because I tend to only put one book at a time on my wait list, rather than having several lined up in Audible, but because the types of books available are different. As I've previously mentioned, I've also been buying audiobooks from Chirp, but primarily using it for random discovery within their sale books. When I decide to outright buy a audiobook these days, I'll try Apple Books first (because: Amazon). Very much like my approach to ebooks, I dislike having books on multiple platforms because I lose track of what's where. But I can't really escape that, alas.

Why do I do so much of my reading in audio? Mostly because I do so much print and e-text reading for the Lesbian Historic Motif Project. Also, between bicycling a couple hours a day and yard work, I have a lot of contexts when I can multi-task audio. Another factor is my aging eyes. When I'm focusing on something close up for an extended period of time--whether it's my LHMP reading, or needlework, or whatever, my eyes take up to an hour to recover and be able to focus at other distances properly. It's annoying. And I can't avoid it for the LHMP work. Audio avoids adding annoyance. (Unintentional alliteration.)

Anyway, enough for now. Tomorrow I'll do my Inventing the Renaissance review, which I plan to post widely. When I first started doing this catch-up book posts, I also disseminated them to several review sites, but that got a bit exhausting and awkward. (I discovered that there's a limit to how many book reviews you can post to Amazon on a single day. A good thing, probably, but hard to keep track of when I'm doing catch-up reviews.)

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Dec. 26th, 2025 10:12 pm
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 Slept in, did a morning pilates session while Keldor did a kettle ball workout. 
 
After breakfast and a game of Qwirkle we resumed work on the create an attic bedroom project, and made some good progress.  Tomorrow we need to go buy more supplies.
 
This evening we took Daniel's things (that we are storing till we can get them to him in Kiruna) over to Bryan's house to free up space in the craft supplies room to be a second guest room for visitors during the new years party. 
 
Then we watched the first episode of the new Ronja Rövarsdöttar while I worked on my silk bliaut short tunic. Then we joined friends in zoom for our workout session. I am so proud of Þórólfr, who is showing up and doing it, even though it is hard at his current fitness level. Hopefully this will improve that fitness level.
 
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The Friday Five for 26 December 2025

Dec. 26th, 2025 02:37 pm
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1. You have the summer and plenty of money to travel abroad. Where all would you go?

2. What foods would you be sure you got to eat?

3. What landmarks would you be sure you got to see?

4. What airline would you use?

5. Would your knowledge of other languages influence where you went? (i.e., would you be more likely to go to France if you spoke French?)

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And very heavy on the dudes. I'm not sure if women don't go into this sort of thing, or if they're just too classy when they do it, and thus don't get onto the playlist. Though I guess it would be strange for lesbians to sing an ode to Jingle Bell COCK. (Emphasis all theirs, and totally unnecessary. We know where the song was going.)


Anyway, in honor of this, I'm posting three belated Christmas videos. The last is Boynton and totally SFW.





This one won't let me embed it.

Julafton

Dec. 24th, 2025 11:00 pm
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Started my day with att 30 minute HIT session, and then finished the dragon for the right sleeve of [[Keldor copper trim tunic]]. Then sewed it to the Bright plum silk so the sleeve can be wrapped as a present.
 
Made a really yummy steamed mixed veg with a spicy peanut sauce that I brought along to Pernill's. Pernilla liked it. Keldor contributed Prinskorv (which I didn't eat), and Pernilla provided meatballs, ham, fish, and a couple of store bought creamy salad things containing vinegar in the sauce (none of which I tasted) and bread, butter, potatoes and a salad (all of which I enjoyed)
 
 We enjoyed  dinner with Pernilla and Tobias. After dinner Tobias. went to his room after eating and didn't join us for watching the rest of this year's Julkalender, nor for games after. We gave them some hugh quality chocolate, and she gave us som nice braided bands.
 
Keldor got a gift from work that he enjoyed, a game about Skellefteå. There are cards in various categories, each of which describes something that happend in Skellefteå. These are read aloud to the person whose turn it is,and they have to decide where on their timeline that happened. After they assign it to its place the actual year is revealed.  If they got it right the card joins their timeline, and they can decide to end their turn and keep the cards they have already accumulated, or roll again for a new card from a new catagory. If they got it wrong, they loose all cards from their current turn.
 
Keldor and Pernilla both grew up here, they have known one another since they were little. So they could consult their own memory for all of the things that happened in their life times. I had to guess for everything. So I always stopped after guessing right for the second card.
 
Keldor let his piles get up to four or five cards before locking them in, so it only took him three turns to win (one needs only 10 cards for victory,  but after the first person achieves 10 everyoneelse gets one more turn as a chance to beat that). Pernilla had the bad luck to guess wrong several times early in her turns, so she and I wound up tied for second place, even though I am so new to the region.
 
Then we played Catan. I have had a small trvel version since I lived in Australia, but Keldor decided that he wants a full sized set, as then it will be possible to add expansion sets.
 
As usual, I forgot to take photos, but Pernilla shared some, so I put them here, too, not that they are visible on Dreamwidth, yet
 
 

A day at home

Dec. 25th, 2025 11:23 pm
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 Other than waking up just long enough to take my morning vitamins with a single bite of a banana (as they are supposed to be taken with food), we slept in. A lovely lazy morning. During breakfast Keldor set the filter he had taken out of the aquarium yesterday into a pot of water and set it on the stove to boil. When I started cleaning up after breakfast he asked me to lower the temperature, so I did.
 
When the dishes were clean and put away he took the pot from the stove, swt it in the sink, and, forgetting that no one had ever turned the heat off, thinking that it had been cooling for a while, reached into the pot to grab the filter and wring it out. He manged to get his fingers all the way into the not quite boiling water and started to grip the filter before his nerves got their emergency distress message all the way to the reflex part of the brain to abandon that mission and turn on cold running water to cool them instead. 
 
After he lowered his skin temperature sufficiently i fetched him the burn ointment that a Blacksmith always has available, and he spent the day on the couch, applying more ointment whenever his fingers felt uncomfortable. 
 
There is no visible sign of damage, which is good, but he isn't interested in using that hand for projects today, either.
 
This is a shame, as we had planned to work in the attic on the insulation project to create an attic bedroom.
 
So, instead, I took the pieces of my silk bliaut short tunic and spread them out to figure out which pieces go where, and which one still need modifications to solve the problem with cutting it wrong. 
 
Over the course of the day I have even gone back and filled in notes in the still fairly new crafts section of this Obsidian vault, finding posts about some of this year's projects and linking to them on the project note, and pulling in photos, adding properties like start and completion dates, materials, catagories, etc. So now I know that painting the Living room ceiling stars took about a month and a half. 

Of course, none of those craft entries will show up on the github web page version of my blog till I am next at the computer to push them there.
 
 

Books I've Read: January-April 2025

Dec. 24th, 2025 11:52 am
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It's going to be a bit trickier to create this post while visiting at my Dad's place since my process involves three different windows (spreadsheet of reading notes, Dreamwidth entry, and database for finished reviews) which I can normally pull up on different screens.

A Sorceress Comes to Call by T. Kingfisher -- (audio) The plot is...well, let’s call it “allusive of” rather than “based on” the fairy tale of the goose girl and her talking horse. There’s a horribly abusive mother (whose comeuppance is similar to the climax of my fairy tale The Language of Roses), a sympathetic ingenue, and a lovely second-chance romance involving an older woman (a Kingfisher specialty). Big content notice for violence and coercion. It's a very painful story, so I'm not sure that "enjoyable" is the right description, but I'm glad I read it.

Murder in an English Village by Jessica Ellicott -- (audio) I was exploring some sale books to see if I could find any interesting historic mysteries and thought this book looked interesting. It’s set between the World Wars and involves two old school chums—-one an English spinster and one an American adventuress—-who stumble into several mysteries. It’s a pleasant enough mystery, though I was unwarrantedly hoping for a touch more sapphic subtext, along the lines of Miss Buncle’s Book.

A Room of One's Own by Virginia Woolf -- (audio) Picked up from an audiobook sale, in part because I'd done an interview where the interviewee made the assumption that of course every feminist has read Woolf and I realized I hadn't. A Room of One's Own is broadly about the difficulties of being a woman writer. Pair this classic with Joanna Russ’s How To Suppress Women’s Writing and then sink into a deep depression about how little has changed since those books were written.

All the Painted Stars by Emma Denny -- (audio) A pleasant enough medieval f/f romance with competent prose, but the historic grounding is exceedingly thin and occasionally annoying. Horses aren't cars. Parchment isn't post-its. Village brewers don't work at industrial scale. It wasn’t a matter of large inaccuracies, but of a constant flow of small details that kept distracting me from the endearing main characters. This book is a follow-on from her previous one which focused on a gay male couple. The two stories are connected by family ties.

The Imposition of Unnecessary Obstacles by Malka Older -- (audio) The second in a sapphic space-mystery series. These are novellas set in a colony constructed around Jupiter after humanity fled an uninhabitable Earth. Murder mysteries get solved by a detective and academic duo who are also negotiating a revival of their romance. The books are enjoyable and have a fun time grounding the mysteries in the worldbuilding.

The Golem and the Jinni by Helene Wecker -- (audio) I finally got around to reading this highly praised book, which came out a number of years ago. The novel asks the question: can a naïve and brilliant golem who has lost her immigrant master on the voyage to America, and a metal-working Jinni newly freed from magical entrapment find their way together in early 20th century New York and foil the schemes of the sorcerer who wants to re-enslave them both? This was beautiful and heartbreaking and ultimately triumphant and I don’t know what took me so long to come back to it, given that I’ve owned a hard copy since it first came out.

Gentleman Jack by Anne Choma -- (audio) I don’t usually consume books for the lesbian history blog via audiobook -- it makes it hard to take notes! It made sense in this case because it’s more of a narrative history rather than a scholarly analysis. This is a narrative history of Anne Lister’s life between November 1831 and March 1834, the period covered by the tv series Gentleman Jack. The book was written specifically as a companion to the tv series, giving the actual details of Anne’s life during that period, which differ in various details from the tv series. (The tv series both omitted and invented significant details.) Interspersed in the narrative are extensive quotes from Anne’s diaries. The account is very readable and will give you a solid background of Anne’s life and times. It is neither a scholarly historical analysis (for that, you might try Jill Liddington) nor an extensive and contextualized survey of significant portions of the diaries (for which you want Helena Whitbread). But it hits a sweet spot for the general reader. And if you’re a fan of the tv series, it makes an interesting “compare and contrast” to understand how history gets adapted for the requirements of drama.

The Tomb of Dragons by Katherine Addison -- (audio) I think this finishes up the Cemetaries of Amalo series, set in the same universe as The Goblin Emperor. As with previous books in the series, there are a number of plot threads that braid together in the resolution. Our protagonist, a "witness for the dead" who can communicate with dead souls finds himself representing a murdered dragon. One of the other major plot threads about an escaped insurgent ties back in at the climax in a way that feels a little too convenient. And there's a surprising twist to a hinted-at romance arc that's been developing across the series.

The Suffragette Scandal by Courtney Milan -- (audio) I've read several Courtney Milan historic romances in the past, with mixed impressions. This one worked very well for me, centering around Victorian-era feminist movements and one of her favorite tropes: aristocrats who are desperately trying to escape their fate. But the reason I picked it up was for the very-much-background sapphic romance that has been slipped into the cracks of the main story.

I was originally going to do just January and February in this post, but then there were only two books I finished in March, and none in April, so it made sense to expand the official scope. (April was, of course, my last month on the job and I was a bit distracted.) Looking ahead in the spreadsheet, I may do another four-month set in the next post and then do one post each for the final four months of the year, based on numbers.

Being haunted.

Dec. 24th, 2025 09:44 am
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 On the night of Dec 15th, I dreamed of Jacque - an old friend from high school who's been dead now for a little over a decade.  I was surprised to see her in the dream, stating "I thought you died!" and she said, no she got a divorce and so let that story get out to stay low profile to avoid drama and social repercussions of divorce and possibly to avoid the ex-husband.  This was perfectly sensible dream logic and so we chatted and I told her how fun it was to see her again and we needed to hang out again soon.  It was so real I was disappointed upon waking up.  It took a moment to remind myself that she really was dead.

On the 20th I dreamed that Vito apologized to me.  I was just going to ignore him and walk out and he must have realized it because he just blurted that he was sorry and then he couldn't stop apologizing.  When he took my hands to keep me from leaving and to impress the seriousness of his apology, I noted they didn't feel right.  They were too small and smooth, like holding Edward's hands.  The longer Vito stood there and apologized (and at one point I think we were both sitting/kneeling on the ground) the smaller his head got - like a shrunken head on a normal sized body.  He started getting weird - after apologizing for hurting my feelings and being a terrible friend and all that, he started going off on a stumbling explanation about how he uses sex for everything - getting to know people and stuff - he even votes with his dick.  I had gone from pleased and gratified relief that he finally apologized and we could be friends again to a cold and distant "This weirdo...."  and I was disappointed and resigned upon waking up.

Last night I dreamed that I wasn't friends with Meg any more.  She had moved out of the apartment without telling me.  We went to a wedding and she had brought two small portraits of mine that had been in a sealed box.  I guess the paintings were from somewhere like Senegal or....starts with a D?  Still in Africa?  Anyway - she broke the seal on the box holding them and was showing them off to some photographer who was from that country and she wanted pictures of all of us with the little paintings.  Working through some photo hand gestures, she like no - we all do this! and it was to grab our eye.  I didn't get the reference and she's like "How can you not know, it was only 70 years ago" and going on and on and on like I was some uneducated ridiculous rube for not picking up on what that meant - something to do with the atrocities in that country and something to do with the painter that captured those pictures. I finally said - in a huff - I'm here for a wedding, not a history lecture - and walked off.  She very much gave the vibe of Phia with more money and more woke and generally better than everyone that wasn't as rich and as socially aware as she was. 

I think I left the wedding at some point and then returned, realizing I guess that Meg had no way home if I had just left her there and maybe I needed to talk to her straight out on WTF.  The wedding food was all vegan and I did enjoy some weird vegan polenta(?) spread out on a dish with almonds laid out in a specific pattern.  The almonds almost gave it some flavor - like a warm crunchy not quite deserty sweet oatmeal vibe.  Needed more sugar and cinnamon.  Anyway - I did ask Meg why she took those pictures and broke the seal on the box - and she wanted to get pictures of them with the photographer because she really liked the photographer.  But why did you take them without asking?  And she confessed she was annoyed/mad/upset at me.  Peak Passive Aggressive.  I don't know if we chillaxed back into cautious friendship for the rest of the over-the-top wedding (we all got full place settings - like for twelve - as wedding favors and I was gathering mine up to donate because I already had two at home!) or if I was just resigned to the concept that once we got out of this wedding we'd never see each other again, as she had already moved out of the apartment and I could see the friendship was over and was just biding my time rather than make a scene.

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