looking for a link/website

Jul. 5th, 2025 02:43 pm
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Sometime in the last couple of months, someone posted a link to a site that had interesting looking shirts made of linen, for lower prices than most places charge. I forgot to bookmark it. Can anyone point me to it? or to something else that fits that description, even if you didn't see it here?


Edited to add: A the shirts were less expensive than I expected, which is a large part of why I'm interested. Those may have been sale prices, I don't remember.

Also, the were made of either linen or a linen blend, not "line".
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Though, upon reflection, it's surprising that this hasn't happened before in 30+ years of menstruation )

I'd say that was the worst thing to happen this weekend, but then I glanced at the news, and how do things keep getting worse? I thought we might at least get a reprieve over the holiday weekend, Congress would all go on vacation and not pass any terrible bills in the interim, but I guess not.

I'm not linking to it, not today. I know how to take a break, even if they don't. Take this article on amenorrhea instead.

Throw it up the chain

Jul. 4th, 2025 04:10 pm
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 Before the troop had shown me the door, I texted a co-worker at the shop about "so...who would I talk to about this?" and she pointed me to one of the guys in the back office.  I talked to him yesterday and he was quite anxious and not sure how to help me.  I get it.  At the end of the day, they're corporate guys and their job is to protect the corporation.

Honestly, no matter how much Dennis tells me this is law suit material, what would I even sue for?  

But, I gave him the specs.  Gave him a copy of the letter I got - that was the only documentation that existed for this whole sordid affair and then brought up the lack of leadership that's causing the kids to suffer.  That, I think, might be the only actionable thing that they might be able to do?  I also told said co-worker, look, I already made the decision to leave before they called me, and I'm willing to take the leadership training again, but Sera deserves credit for her work.  I think he was relieved we were going to stay in scouting and directed me at a troop out in Barrington.  Why he didn't direct me at Cate's troop here in Elgin, I don't know, but Jimm says that's indicative of how little council is actually helping scouts in our area.

Imagine my surprise when I get a phone call and I only half-recognize the last name on the caller ID.  Oh shit, its the council president.  I mean, yeah, co-worker in a way - I just sewed all the patches on his new uniform shirt in time for a big Scout Corporate Presentation(tm), but not like we hob nob in the hallways or anything.

But I guess the report had gotten to him and he was calling to get more details and to make sure Sera was okay.  That was touching - even if in a cynical moment you have to accept that maybe that was emotional staging.  And, despite Cynical Husband reminding me that his first priority is to protect Scouts, not the troop and not me/Sera, I don't know that the Council President is normally calling parents of any scout that got sent home from camp, accusations of "self harm" or not.  So I clarified that for him - "Wishing I was dead" might be splitting hairs on "I'm actively planning on hurting myself/others" - and the year long isolating and bullying that's been going on, the fact I've not been read into any of it or included in any sort of plan to help.  

Then I detailed for him the lack of leadership and Lord of the Flies scenarios that were going on.  Mr. President says he's well acquainted with the leadership of that troop and will talk to them - Anonymously of course - but not like they couldn't figure out who the fuck he's talking about.  Some of that old guard are the same ones that dismissed my concerns with the kids floundering with "this troop is Scout Led".  Scout led is all well and good, Mr. President, but when you have whole patrols who have been in three years and none of them are first class yet, they're not being mentored.

He assured me my training will be signed off on and so will Sera's badges and I told him we were thinking of going to Cate's troop - I've known her from way back and she was connected to Troop 2 where both my boys Eagled out of (I was very deliberate in mentioning that, letting him know I'm not just some flash in the pan parent, I've been Scouting for a while and am committed) and feel she probably runs a tighter ship.  He agreed, also knowing Cate for forever (her dad founded Troop 2 and Cate's gotta be getting close to 90).

So, I don't think much will come of it - but I feel better knowing that Sera will get her badges signed off on and it was my big middle finger to Beverly to have her sign off on my training, so maybe I got at least that much.  The biggest problem children in that troop are probably only there for four more years max, and it makes me wonder how bad it'll get if they fall into classic bullying where they'll just find a new target to pick on or if Sera was indeed the catalyst that created the storm.  I wonder how many parents will be frustrated or just resignedly accept that its basically a social club and unless the kid is Driven Type A, they'll be lucky to age out at First Class.  Part of me wants to watch it explode, horribly.  But that would be unfair to the kids that are innocent bystanders to the drama.

I don't think this makes Sera feel any better - the way she described it, it sounds like that last fight you have with a significant other where you're sad its over, you miss them terribly, but at the same time there's a sense of relief that you don't have to do that any more.  I think we'll take off the rest of July - part for her mental health, part for my mental health, part for scheduling - and see if Cate can give us a Scouting home.

July 4th

Jul. 4th, 2025 11:55 am
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Jay Kuo takes a break from chronicling the regime's crimes to share some honest hope for today, and the days and months ahead:

https://statuskuo.substack.com/p/celebrating-independence

The Friday Five for 4 July 2025

Jul. 3rd, 2025 03:27 pm
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Jul. 3rd, 2025 06:46 am
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Yesterday was five years since we got the cats. It's always a bit of a twinge on Gotcha Day to see the kitten pics of Hilde.

Miss Bea has recovered from her several days of convalescence - we limited ourselves to checking her hydration level. She is also grudgingly eating her current food mixture; her preferred rabbit hasn't been available at the pet store. We did get a couple cans of gooshy food which Bea yummed right up, but we don't want to give her too much of that as she might go on strike. And the gooshy food is not something we can leave for self-feeding if we're gone for a weekend.
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Moonpie's foot looks better, we didn't end up having to take her for an x-ray at all.

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Bleeding

Jul. 4th, 2025 05:02 pm
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On the day the world ends
A bee circles a clover,
A fisherman mends a glimmering net.
Happy porpoises jump in the sea,
By the rainspout young sparrows are playing
And the snake is gold-skinned as it should always be.

On the day the world ends
Women walk through the fields under their umbrellas,
A drunkard grows sleepy at the edge of a lawn,
Vegetable peddlers shout in the street
And a yellow-sailed boat comes nearer the island,
The voice of a violin lasts in the air
And leads into a starry night.

And those who expected lightning and thunder
Are disappointed.
And those who expected signs and archangels’ trumps
Do not believe it is happening now.
As long as the sun and the moon are above,
As long as the bumblebee visits a rose,
As long as rosy infants are born
No one believes it is happening now.

Only a white-haired old man, who would be a prophet
Yet is not a prophet, for he’s much too busy,
Repeats while he binds his tomatoes:
There will be no other end of the world,
There will be no other end of the world.

Warsaw, 1944


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Wednesday reading

Jul. 2nd, 2025 04:46 pm
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Boston's Orange Line, by Andrew Elder and Jeremy C. Fox. This is a collection of black-and-white photos, going back to the start of the old elevated orange line, with captions. This was for the "explore Boston history" square on the BPL summer reading bingo. If I'd noticed the "images of rail" series title, I wouldn't have borrowed this book. The captions are just about enough to confirm that there's more than enough to be said on the subject to make a book, but this isn't. This has a disjointed discussion of the lengthy "realigmnent" of the orange line to its current route, and a couple of paragraphs on the decision not to run an 8-lane interstate through the middle of Boston and Cambridge, and no suggestion that anything similar had happened elsewhere. Ah, well.

There are suggestions on the library website for some of the squares (including "with a green cover"), but not this one. Searching the catalog for "Boston histpry" got me this, along with, among other things, a book about the Big Dig, a book about the Great Molasses Flood (which is at least mentioned in this, with a picture of damage to the orange line), and Hawthorne's The Scarlet Letter.

Outings

Jul. 2nd, 2025 10:49 am
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Sunday was my dad's birthday. We spent the day with him and went out to one of his two favorite restaurants - he doesn't get out much. The one he requested is a local pizza place we've been to before. I did like my artichoke, feta, and green olive pizza. I made a standard lemon cheesecake topped with apricot jam and sliced fresh apricots, which came out pretty well.

His balance is still bad and he has arthritis in his feet, but is too stubborn to use walking sticks because he thinks "they would slow him down" (or, I think, he'd have to admit he needs them). We keep trying to nudge him in that direction by pointing out that runners use them without slowing down...

Last night we met our friends Ken and CJ for drinks and dinner in the city. They were happy to leave the East Bay heat for SF coolth. We tried a vaguely-potted-plant tiki bar we hadn't been to before. It's called Pacific Cocktail Haven and it doesn't hit you over the head with the theme. Everyone else really liked their drinks; CJ adored hers, which was a highball using root beer and absinthe so it tasted like alcoholic licorice. My two were interesting but were not in my happy place enough to get again. I suspect we'll go there again.

We had dinner a couple doors down at a Mediterranean restaurant. It was decent although a bit on the expensive end for its quality, being close-ish to Union Square. The baklava was quite nice - not too sweet for us.

June Book Roundup

Jul. 2nd, 2025 08:18 am
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Read
  • Activation Degradation by Marina J. Lostetter - excellent sci-fi book, some very fucked up stuff, very good. Library e-book
  • The Saint of Bright Doors by Vajra Chandrasekera - my god this book was incredible. wild. so vivid. just so good. the narrator was excellent as well. library audiobook
  • The Siren, the Song and the Spy by Maggie Tokuda-Hall - extremely interesting worldbuilding, neato plot, lots of queer people and mermaids. packs a lot into a novelette. library e-book
  • When Gods Die by C.S Harris - second in the series, decent murder mystery. physical library book
  • Greenteeth by Molly O'Neil - omg I loved this so much. the narrator was very good, there is epic quests and friendship and aaaaaa. library audiobook
  • Deadbeat Druid by David R. Slayton - it's really been too long since I read the first two in the series, so I didn't actually remember any of the plot. decent anyway. library e-book
  • To Shape A Dragon's Breath by Moniquill Blackgoose - holy shit you guys, this book was really good. very "this person stands up against the colonial power and succeeds" but it was really cool world building and very enjoyable to read. library e-book
  • The Incandescent by Emily Tesh - extremely extremely good. lots of british private school nonsense but that's easily skimmable. plot got extremely good. library e-book
Re-read
  • Uprooted by Naomi Novik - more intense than I remembered, very good. physical library book
DNF
  • Isabella Nagg and the Pot of Basil - clearly going for Pratchett style humor, not actually my jam and half of the jokes are in footnotes which don't work well on my phone to click. library e-book
  • The Secret Lives of Country Gentlemen by KJ Charles - not the author's fault, but I'm pretty sure the audiobook was being read by a computer. There were really weird pauses in the middle of sentences that shouldn't be there and I couldn't get through five minutes of it. Really weird. library audiobook

It's been a bad couple of days

Jul. 1st, 2025 08:34 pm
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I've been crying a lot.  Just a lot of shit going on.  I never did mention in passing that Aunt Marianne died - Jimm's aunt - and that Sera and I didn't go to the funeral 'cause we were in Camp Devil's Taint.

Seriously - it was so hot and humid I thought I was going to die.  Mostly the humidity.

The Committee Chair for 46/946 called and told me that she heard what happened and talked to a bunch of people and got more information from Beverly and it was decided I wasn't welcome back.  I'm like "Oh, I wasn't planning on it.  I was just holding out until I made sure Beverly signed off on my training and Sera got credit for her merit badges."  Dennis had already told me Beverly was bitching a mean streak about how I didn't finish and she wasn't going to sign off, so I knew to mention it.  Amie was taken aback.  Some hemming some hawing some "I'll be in contact with you" and within ten minutes of hanging up, they unplugged me from the troop's Scoutbook account.

Man, don't let the door hit me on the ass on the way out.

Dennis is all "Gurrrl, this is a lawsuit".  I just want Sera to get credit for her merit badges.  I couldn't care less about my training.  I'll take it again if I have to, no skin off my nose.  I don't think they'll do that for me.  I think they're totally the type to lie about it and say either they didn't get the paper work or that it was just a partial and then never show me the paperwork as proof.

I was uncertain about going into work and talking with one of the Corporate Scout guys, but I guess I have to.  The question is - will they believe me (in case the troop has already submitted reports and its human nature to believe the first party you hear) will they be in any way or shape effective (in whatever effective even means) and can they get proof of Sera's merit badges.

That troop is so fucking toxic, I can only hope it eats itself in the next year. 

I gave up Avacal for this?

Goal Checking

Jun. 30th, 2025 08:34 pm
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Finished This Month

Finish reading 3 books with a Jewish protagonist


Progress This Month

Exercise every day in 2025
Weight lift every day of 2025
Brush teeth 360 times in 2025
Shower weekly 2025
Go to fighter practice 12 times in 2025
Art Every Day 2025
Paint 12 times in 2025
Write in Spanish every day of 2025
Write in Russian every week of 2025
Finish my memoirs
Write 300k words in 2025
Write weekly 2025
Work through a book of writing exercises
Read 2 pages of Spanish every day 2025
Read 12 new fiction titles 2025
Clean 2 minutes per weekday 2025
Clean 10 minutes per week 2025
Cook 12 times 2025
Watch a video in Spanish every week 2025
Watch a video in Russian every week 2025
Read 3 science textbooks
Read 3 social science textbooks
Read 3 history textbooks
Work through 3 math textbooks
Read 12 new nonfiction titles 2025

Crafts

Jun. 30th, 2025 03:29 pm
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Hey all, if you'd like to join the crafting hangout, it is tonight from 6-8pm ET!
 
Video encouraged but not required!
 
Topic: Crafting Hangout
Time: Mondays 6:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
 
Join Zoom Meeting
 
Meeting ID: 973 2674 2763

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Season finale spoiler )

During the Christmas episode we saw the firm's acapella group, which might have just been an excuse to highlight one character's amazing singing voice. Anyway, they were singing White Winter Hymnal, and I'm going to just post two quick videos, the original version and a different acapella cover:





(Those lyrics can't be entirely right - surely the pack is swaddled in their coats, not swallowed?)

Anyway, you'll notice that in the first one they weirdly pronounce "the" with a "long e" (the vowel in pee) before the words "white snow". Does that strike anybody else as a weird place to do that?

Crossover time!

Jun. 29th, 2025 07:48 pm
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I was looking up fictional law firm names and you know how Angel has the evil law firm Wolfram and Hart? Apparently NCIS has Wolfram, Hart and Donowitz. No word on if they're evil. Are they evil?

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It has been a long week

Jun. 29th, 2025 02:07 pm
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I'm looking forward to having tomorrow completely off work. Well, mostly. I worked Monday last week due to urgent pumpkin planting and the heat wave and I actually took a nap yesterday afternoon on the couch after lunch and didn't do all that much work after lunch. My last day off was Saturday and I spent all day at the SCA event. Sometimes the body just is done. 

My plan to wake up early, work until it got really hot and then spent some time in the creek worked extremely well. I literally just change into shorts and my rubber boots and head down. The creek is extremely cold at the best of times, it's all spring fed from the mountains and mostly shaded by trees in our neck of the woods, so it cools me off quick and makes my feet nice and cold within 20 minutes of being fully submerged and they stay cold for several hours. It's fantastic. 

I'm not actually sure what days we did what, but there was field prep of plowing and disking various fields in various states of ready, laying plastic (biodegradable plastic), my dad planting bare ground with the planter, and both of us planting into the plastic with the dorker planter (not sure why my dad and uncle call it the dorker, it's not the brand or anything), transplanting the giant pumpkins, irrigating and fertigating the vegetables and strawberries, and setting up the selling area for opening for raspberries and blueberries. I had employees working as well, although on the hot days, I sent them home at noon. The 14 year old forgot his water bottle on tuesday, so I gave him two from the cooler that we sell, told him to take at least a five minute break in the shade every hour and take another water bottle when he walked home. He was mostly weeding things. I had my other employee using the cultivating tractor, weed wacking the deer fencing. I started setting up the deer fencing in the strawberry field by the house since the deer are eating it, just need to buy handles when I go to town tomorrow and I'll have it up and electrified by Tuesday. And we opened for raspberry and blueberry picking. One of the hot days, I drank six bottles of water by 2pm, two of which had added electrolytes. Sweated most of it out. There was a breeze that day, so it wasn't fully torture. Just mostly. 

We got so much done this week holy shit. I did other stuff too. And so did my parents. They had their first event in the church this weekend, so we spent a lot of time whipping that into shape. I feel back to full normal after being sick thankfully.

The urgent stuff is all done, so I spent some time this morning doing less urgent stuff. Weeding the raspberries, primarily the new patch to help keep the perennial weed problems down. And cleaning up the elderberry planting. It's definitely in rough shape, we probably won't have much of a harvest at all. They're european elderberries and a bunch of them have died, so we'll replace them with american elderberries which seem to thrive locally anyway. They're in the rockiest part of the farm as well, so it's good to have something perennial there. My dad and I talked about expanding the planting because there's so much interest in them, so that will be on the list for next spring. Shouldn't be too hard, all the irrigation is set up already, just would need to place landscape fabric and plant them in. A lot of the small crops have suffered for lack of attention. I've been working on the kiwiberries every time I'm nearby them and I trained the first canes perpendicular across the trellis the other day. Exciting! 

I've spent some time contemplating my social life or lack of. All the things I would do to make friends, volunteer, meetup groups, etc rely on a more consistent schedule than I can manage right now. To be fair, I have social things three nights a week right now, monday crafting, tuesday video games with sibs, saturday watching baking with J but those are all online. I need to do some things in person. I've texted one person who I've met up with inconsistently the last few years who lives locally, originally one of J's friends but we've chatted a bunch now and it's been enjoyable. Last year was so chaotic that I failed to meet up with her, so I apologized for that in the text. There's a Wed afternoon knitting group at the local library, but unless it's raining, I can't make that, especially with employees working. My dad usually has computer work Tues and Wed, so I have to be supervisor to workers. I should aim to find something going on Thursday or Friday nights since I now don't have employees working that late (high school kids worked after school this spring and early summer so my evenings were busy). The SCA stuff is shaping up to be good but only if I can commit to going to things, there's another event this Saturday that I was hoping to go to, but we're open all day sat for picking and it looks like it'll be sunny. 

But I'm the most content I think I've ever felt in my whole life. It's wild how solid I feel even with all of the irritation of my parents not moving out yet. I'm not anxious. I'm not worrying. I'm enjoying the work and the days are long but they don't feel that long. Some of that might be the testosterone and the joy I'm feeling from it. Some of it might be the work. It's just nice to be out doing physical work without the driving from previous jobs. So fun! I get to move and look at the beautiful views and the neat stuff on the farm. All the lilies are blooming right now! Growing things! That other people pick and enjoy! Spending time with family! I dunno. It's nice to enjoy this even while the political situation is *gestures*. did have a good convo with someone about USDA cuts to grants that help farmers, so that was a good win. 

Also I just finished Emily Tesh's Incandescent while sitting here on register and I am SCREAMING, I got 2/3 of the way through and rolled my eyes a bit and THEN THE THING AHHH

farmers market

Jun. 29th, 2025 02:12 pm
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Today's trip to the farmers market was successful and satisfying.

I left the house as soon as I'd had my morning tea, and went to a market that opens at 10 on Sundays. I got there at about 10:20, before they'd sold out of anything I wanted, or might want.

What I particularly wanted was raspberries, and I bought two small boxes of those (totalling about a pint).

Busa Farms had a bin full of nice-looking shell peas, and I bought almost two pounds, because Cattitude is very fond of fresh peas. When I got home, he told me that he'd thought he had missed the local pea season this year. I also bought a bunch of red radishes, because they caught my eye while I was in line to pay for the peas. (Busa had both red and purple radishes, which somehow made them more appealing than if there'd only been one kind of radish.)

Hi-Rise Bakery was there, and I bought a small loaf of their concord bread, which is the right degree of crusty for the three of us. (They also have a thicker-crust "luce.")

The raspberries are from Kimball's, where I also bought a few diva cucumbers.

Stillman's Farm didn't have lamb sausages, but when I asked about it, the vendor said "probably next week" and asked what kind I liked. She is going to report back that they had a request for merguez sausages. I don't know whether we'll get to the same market next week, but it sounds like there will be lamb sausages at the other local farmers markets soon.

A lot of other things looked good, but I decided I didn't need lettuce (multiple varieties), cherry tomatoes, or fish.

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