Last weekend we went down to Sundsvall for the V.Ä.V. SCA event (the letters stand for the swedish phrase for "violence is beautiful"), and it is a fighting event. There were many people there that I adore, and I was really looking forward to seeing folk. However, when we got there Friday night I was feeling tired and not so interested in human interaction as I would normally be. I wondered if I was feeling a little off from having been vaccinated Thursday, even though I had had no other symptoms, but wasn't certain. When we were arrived (a little after 22:00) they were in the middle of the "Ask the Knights" session, so Keldor and I sat down at a table and he listened and participated in the conversation, and I worked on my sewing and half listened. These days, when at full energy I should have been able to follow the Swedish conversation with no problem, but my ear was bothering me a little, and I had trouble focusing on the conversation, so I heard/understood only a litte, and was happy sewing. After a little while I realised that I had most of a very long bench to myself, and that the bench had a padded top and was broad enough. The room is very small, and full of people, so I decided to do my yoga right there on the bench, and it felt great. After a very nice yoga session I then lay down on the bench, put my head on Keldor's knee, and took a nap while the Ask the Knights conversation continued. I woke when the formal conversation ended and Keldor and I went down to the sauna for a bit before heading to bed just after 01:00.
Saturday the plan for the event was fencing and archery in the morning, and heavy fighting after lunch. When Keldor was ready to get up at 08:30 I was feeling like I could sleep more, but we'd driven 344 km to get there, and there were friends I hadn't seen in ages, so I got up and joined them for breakfast. However, by 11:00 I was so sleepy I went back to the van to sleep (we had planned to sleep in the hall, on our own indoor SCA event bed of thermarest camping mats and sheepskins, but the poor autocrat discovered when they arrived on site that instead of the hall having the 19 bunk beds they'd been promised, all the upper bunks were missing, so they put out a frantic call for help, and all of the locals who had cots brought them, so that everyone who had asked for a bed got something much like a bed, but cots on the floor take more space than bunk beds, so by the time we arrived on site there wasn't a place where one could put a double wide bed/nest on the floor. Since we have the 90 cm wide bed that lives in the back of the van it made sense to just sleep there. Which, since we parked right by the door both nights (moving the car away during the day time hours), meant that I had a shorter walk to the ground floor toilets than I normally do on that site, since the sleeping rooms are on the third floor).
I slept nearly an hour, woke briefly when Keldor came to armour up, decided that, no, I wasn't going to armour up after all, and slept another 30 minutes. Then I got up, had some lunch, looked out the window, and saw the fighters gathering for the footwork class with Sir Krake. That sounded fun, and like something I could do without armour, so I joined them, enjoyed it, and had a few things click for me that hadn't in other foot work classes (wherein they used different words to try to communicate the same thing. "lean forward till your start to fall and your food will automatically go forward" describes the same thing as "shift forward, leading with your hip until your foot automatically follows", but the latter makes sense for me, and just works, while the former felt terrible).
As the footwork class wound up the hint of rain we'd been having turned into something one can actually describe as rain, so I went into the hall, where there were lots of people sitting around the tables talking and working on projects in small groups. I managed to find a place to sit and sew, but wasn't really in any of the circles and felt myself very outside of it all, happily sewing, but not feeling any connection with anyone. And my ear was bothering me. My ears often itch (it is a downside of hearing aids), and while I know better, sometimes I scratch, and when that happens sometimes my nails do a little damage to the skin. My right ear had clearly been scratched open at some point, and it wasn't feeling nice to have the hearing aid in there (but neither did I want to go without in a place where someone might talk to me, never mind that I wasn't interacting much with folk).
I went out to the car a bit before the fighters finished up, and just lay on the bed a bit looking at my phone, feeling vaguely like I was wasting an opportunity to spend time with friends, but not having the energy to do anything about it. Then Keldor joined me, and comforted me a bit for feeling out of the event, and I comforted him a bit for having taken a blow that probably cracked one of his lower ribs. As we were talking Count Æriker came over to point out that I was the second highest ranked person site, after him, so when it came time for toasts during the banquet it would be him for Drachenwald, me for the King and Queen, then the three Viscounts could take Nordmark, the Prince & Princess, and Gyllengran (the local shire).
This reminded me that, yes, even though I wasn't going to be hungry that late in the evening, I should still attend the banquet, so I did, and had a pleasant time half listening to the conversations around me, working on Nålbingning, doing the toasts in the proper time, but I never really felt connected, and my ear was bothering me. Not bad, like a full-on ear infection (those really hurt), but definite discomfort bordering on light pain.
After folk had eaten some of them moved outside (the tiny hall gets really, really loud with so many people talking at once, which made standing out in the crisp autumn air by the fire really appealing to about half the folk). I suspect that had I been my normal gregarious self I would have joined them, but it was easier to just sit in my corner till the crowd cleared enough to do my yoga, and I went out to the car and went to sleep before 23:00. (Keldor stayed up happily talking to folk till 02:00, and normally I would have, too.)
Because I went to bed so early I half expected to wake early, and contemplated just driving home very early in the morning, and letting him sleep while I drove. But no, I slept in as late as he did, neither of us waking till 09:00. Since we'd slept in the car it was only grab the box of feast gear from the hall and check to see if we'd forgotten anything and get on the road.
Having gotten a total of 10 hours of sleep per day I was awake enough to enjoy the trip home. We stopped at an antique & second hand store, where I bought a nice wall mount cabinet for holding spools of thread and stuff, which came with spools of thread and stuff, and he bought a wide leather weight lifting belt that he thinks we can modify to be a better belt to hang my leg armour from. We also stopped at Skulleberget and went for a short walk up the hill--not all the way to the cave, but probably about half way there felt like plenty for both of us.
Monday morning first thing I called the local health center, and got an appointment for 13:00. When I got there and the nurse looked into the ear that was bothering me they became very worried, and said that it looks like I have a hole in my eardrum. I explained that I had one when I was little, but had surgery to fix it when I was 10 years old, and had it come back? The nurse decided that he wasn't qualified for this visit, and fetched a doctor. The doctor looked, said that she couldn't see a hole in the eardrum, but that it was covered with scar tissue (yes, I know--that surgery when I was ten, and lots of infections and tubes in my ears when I was little). She said that even if there is a hole, and she doesn't think there is one, the antibiotic ear drops she prescribed will still help the minor infection in the ear canal. I thanked her, and happily went to fetch my ear drops.
The drops contain an anti-itch component, so I felt better pretty much right away after using them (though it took a day before the swelling went down so that I could put the left hearing aid in without discomfort). This week has been busy, with at least a couple hours of research each day, putting stuff away from the event, prepping for this weekends event, Monday night fighter training and armour repair. Tuesday cleaning, waxing/polishing the van (which took all evening--it is slippery now! I had never touched a car that has been waxed before--it is going to be so easy to brush the snow off of it now). Wednesday Keldor came home from work so tired that he just slept on the couch while I worked on replacing the zipper on the soft ice chest we use for road trips.
Yesterday morning I noticed that the house across the street, that had been slightly damaged in a fire before we moved here, and which the owner has been fixing up with intent to sell, finally has a For Sale sign on it. So while we did our normal 30 minute phone call as he drives to work, I got on line and
checked it out. They are asking nearly three times what I paid for this house! It will be interesting to see what it sells for. While I had hemnet open I looked at the other properties in this town, and then at things in the countryside. Oh, look,
a cute farm house with a forest only 8 minutes from here, with a viewing that evening. Way out of my price range, even if we were done fixing this place up and could sell for top dollar, but, why not go look?
So I did (he didn't get home from work on time to join me). House is cute, nice location. The forest is actually three distinct properties--a good sized parcell the house is on, and two, much larger, forest plots further away. The realtor mentioned that the owner wants to keep living in the house one more year before transfering the property, and I wonder if it is worth asking if perhaps they might be willing to sell me the house and few hectares adjacent to it for whatever we can sell my house for, and let someone else buy the actual forest?
Keldor got home around the same time I did, and we managed, after some difficulty*, to load the large, pretty, china cabinet that came with the house into the van. This would have been much easier if the top decorative edge hadn't been both glued and screwed into place, since it was only that bit that made it impossible to slide the upper cabinet through the door and onto the bed. Instead we needed to unscrew the bed from the floor and take it out, so that we could tilt the upper cabinet at enough of an angle to slide it diagonally through the door, and then lift it up and over the lumps of the wheel wells, at which point we propped it up at a slight angle on our beanbag chairs so that it would sit far enough in the van to make room for the base as well. Luckily, the base is narrow enough that we could also fit in the chests and bedding bags for this weekend's SCA event. With all the soft stuff packed around the cabinet it shouldn't be moving at all on the drive.
This weekend is Höstdansen, one of my favourite SCA events, since it is all dance, most of the time. Also some of my dearest friends will be there, including Hjälmar, who moved to southern Sweden at the beginning of the pandemic, and then to the Uppsala area this spring. He will be renting a trailer and taking the cabinet south with him, and I wish him much joy in it. It is pretty (by far the prettiest of the three china cabinets that came with this house), but it is also the largest and least useful as an improvised pantry (which is what we are doing with the other two), so I am looking forward to the extra space with it gone.
*loading the cabinet in the van would have been easier if not for the road construction on our road--they are digging the road down more than a meter deep, then putting a thick layer of stone base before they put the road itself over all--so far they have gotten as far as the thick stone base just as far as our house itself, but not as far as the driveway. The stone base is still a good 20 or 20 cm lower than our lawn, so it isn't possible to drive right to the door, so we had to carry the cabinet bits across the lawn, and then carefully down over the edge to the road level, and then try to put it in. It would also have helped if Keldor hadn't broken that lower rib at the event, and then further damaged it at work yesterday. The only good bit in that injury is that this morning he was moving so stiffly he took the day off, and, since the car is already loaded, he can take it easy. Well, for him. He is busy in the cellar now, carving on a decorated horn copy of a Viking artifact. The plan was for him to do that while I did a bit of work on my paper in progress, so I had better close this here and get to work.