kareina

I don't doubt that a good monogamous relationship has plenty of honesty and pleasure. I have never in my life been one to "seek someone new"--however, there are many, many wonderful people in this world, and despite not "seeking", I have fallen in love with a number of them over the years. I refuse to get romantically involved until and unless the friendship has progressed to the point that I find them lovable, but if I do I also refuse to be denied the right to be involved with them just because there are also other people I care about. I don't have to be involved with everyone I love, but neither do I wish to be told by someone other than a specific love interest that I may not.