kareina

lol! Your perspective is so very, very different from mine. Poly, for me, has *nothing* to do with seeking better/more interesting bed mates, and everything to do with acknowledging that some friendships include a love of a romantic sort. It brings me great joy to see people I love happy, even when that happiness stems from their falling in love with someone other than me. I don't have any need to be the one to cause happiness in the people I care about, it just matters to me that they be happy. Besides, even better than to have someone I love fall in love with someone new and to be happy is to have both(or however many) of us fall in love with the same person, and have that person love both(or however many) of us in return. I honestly don't care if sex is involved, I'm all about the loving connection. Sometimes it is nice to spend time with one or more of my loved ones, others it is nice to know that they are spending time with people they care about whilst I'm busy doing something I enjoy.