kareina

I didn't mean to imply that there is dishonesty in practicing monogamy--so long as the parties involved are actually practicing it there usually isn't. There is, however, a self-denial component *if* you see others you would otherwise be attracted to, and choose not to peruse that attraction because you've already got someone. The dishonesty only comes in when, as happens all too often, people claim to be a monogamist, and still pursue other attractions.

So please don't take my words as an insult. Heck, many would say that successful self-denial is praise.