Yup, exactly. No one alternative will be best for everyone, but I'm very happy that there *are* alternatives, and we don't all have to try to fit the same mould. My post included some of the reasons I thought of, as I typed, for why *I* feel that my choices are the best for me. The target audience as I wrote? Me. I'm ok with others having different reactions, no one else needs to agree with me, but anyone who chooses to read it has a bit of an idea of what thoughts when through my head when I read the post which triggered this one.