I'm a monogamist. I understand polyamory, however...I find it slightly insulting that you would claim my choice to be self denying or dishonest to myself or my partner. I think it's a lifestyle choice. Sure I meet other men who I think. if I were single I would totally fall for them" but I don't see that as being dishonest, nor do I see it as denying myself anything if I choose not to persue the other man.