They aren't *all* like that, really. But yes, I do have the advantage in that I've been elsewhere and seen the many hundreds of SCA folk who really do strive to uphold all of the ideals of chivalry, honour, and courtesy on a daily bases. It is a game, but one which can be ever so much fun! Fortunately, there is a very good on-line SCA presence wherin in one can hangout with those individuals who share one's special interests without having to see any of the unpleasant local folk...