Gotta agree with not_an_elf and glass_violet here, I got his wall post comment in my profile when I logged on so it doesn't matter that he deleted it, any one of your friends with the fb profile set up to get notices of people's activity would have still seen it. Posting shit like that is seriously not on. I'd be furious if that happened to me because all the people in my research field are on fb as "friends". Even if it were true and you were a hooker on the side it would still be totally unacceptable. Doing it to you (or anyone else) at this time is just so stupid and cruel I am speechless. Plus, it was totally out of line considering the above stats so HELL NO to all three questions.

Seriously, the thing that pisses me off about this is that you've felt you need to ask us these questions at all because that means he got to you with his stupid stunt and that is again so stupid and cruel I am speechless. And angry about it also (as you can tell from this rant).

Forget that stuff and go back to believing in yourself, like the Kareina we all know and love.